Don't agree. Most DO learn, this one almost learned but failed to renew the bcs on time. Another very costly lesson.
I wonder when we as a society are going to learn OUR very costly lesson and demand accountability from BOTH parties?
We seem to hve a gaping blind spot when it comes to the fathers of these children.
I work with a lot of these women and their children. They don't learn, or won't. Oh, maybe having 4 at one time would be a wake up call to some of them, but most just keep having babies by different fathers and let other people be responsible for them. Now keep in mind, that I am working with the ones who become a problem. In my experience, the ones that learn don't end up on my caseload. It is very rare, however, for all the children of these women to all have the same father. Sometimes they pay support and sometimes they don't. Sometimes these women get fixed. Often though, they raise kids that just repeat the cycle. And the children in these "families" are becoming sexually active at ages that would shock you.