I am so sick of society's determination to brand everyone by their sexual orientation. Reducing us all to the lowest common denominator just causes us to ignore the other facets of our lives that are more important in our day to day interractions with one another. My first assessment of a person is not to determine whether they are homosexual or heterosexual, but if that person flaunts or otherwise lets me know their orientation, I understand that they are operating on the lowest level and just serves to add a level of stress in the situation that would not be there if they had just kept their mouth shut.
DON'T freakin ask, DON'T freakin tell, an DON'T freakin thow it in my face!