Blue-staters are having a difficult time understanding us because it's beneath them to get to know us. On the contrary, us red-staters understand the blue-staters quite well. They love to talk about themselves and will do so willingly on TV, film, books, universities, etc., ad nauseum. That's why we're defeating them left and right--we know our enemy and they don't know theirs.
The blue-staters would do well engage in a little world travel themselves. Perhaps a trip to that mythical land known as "Flyover Country" would be good for their soul.
The red states are not inusulated. In fact, they are becoming less insulated. However, the left is out of touch with the rest of the country, so much so, that they don't realize they are out of touch.