On my part, yes. My personal experience is that controlling types will invariably threaten those things you hold dear as a means of controlling you. During my marriage it wasn't just my pets were threatened.
Looking back, I struggle with my mindset that kept me locked in that relationship and kept me from making rational judgments.
Well now that is over, so try to look at every day from now on as a blessing to you. They are blessings to you.
Been there, done that, stop trying to second-guess yourself. It will only drive you crazy. I know from first-hand experience.
You did what you had to do at the time. God bless you and may He help you on the path to find healing.