Where in my statement have I said they are the 'enemy'? Seeking to tell the truth is not a superior attitude, and it most certainly is Christian. Apparently you would prefer to hug them and lie to them at the same time. Maybe you could take Arafat's place, after all that is what he did to them. He hugged their children, right before he showed them how to strap on explosives and board an Israeli bus.
It's all over your patronizing attitude.
Seeking to tell the truth is not a superior attitude, and it most certainly is Christian. Apparently you would prefer to hug them and lie to them at the same time.
I would prefer to treat them as human, feel for their grief and then begin working on bringing them into the world of reality.
Coming in blazing with lectures about how stupid and evil they are is no way to go about things.
Really, you would think an expression of sympathy for people grieving would be unexceptional.
SD