What part of this is "bad" or "unChristian" again?
Dave, once the person is DEAD, it's too late to pray for their soul. That is "unChristian" and against what the Bible teaches. Try not to display your ignorance on these matters.
Christians have been praying for the dead from the very beginning -- all but a rump of johnnie-come-latelies who're way out on a limb by themselves.
and against what the Bible teaches.
Cite, please.
Please read the 2nd book of Maccabees.
SD