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PINELLAS PARK - November 10, 1984 was a crisp autumn morning in South Hampton, Pennsylvania. It was also Terri Schindler's wedding day.

The bitter legal battle over Terri's future has captured the bay area's attention for nearly seven years. Most people only know Terri as she appears in the videos taken after her heart attack, where she is unable to talk or walk.

But recently, for the first time in 20 years, Terri's parents sat down and watched Terri's wedding tape and invited Action News viewers to join them.

The first few minutes of the tape drew smiles and warm memories from the Schindlers.

"She was so happy then she was," Mary Schindler recalled. "I remember when we were upstairs getting ready, and I just told her how proud I was of her and that I wanted her to be happy, and that I hoped I didn't cry all day. I remember saying that and we just laughed."

It was Bob's proudest moment, walking his daughter down the aisle. It was evident how much he misses Terri -- the house grew silent as Terri's voice played from the TV, a voice no one has heard in 14 years.

As the watched the tape, the Schindlers began with smiles...
The tape became harder to watch for the family as Terri Schindler exchanged vows with Michael Schiavo.

"Now it watch it, and obviously they were meaningless," Bob observed.

"I am not angry at him anymore. It's been going on too long. It's just sad what he's doing now. I feel it's very sad," Mary added.

Michael Schiavo is locked in an ongoing court battle with the Schindlers. Schiavo claims his wife said she would not want to live in a permanently vegetative state, as she now does, but the family does not want her life-sustaining feeding tube removed.

The family has accused Michael of purposefully blocking their access to Terri's hospice care facility, among other things. So how did they feel watching the young couple's first kiss as a husband and wife years ago?

"It makes me feel good for her because, at that time in her life, she was very much in love. I mean, she was really in love with him, as him with her, and I was very happy for them then," Mary said.

...but those smiles soon turned to tears.
The court battle between the two parties has dragged on for years, but nearly every decision has been in Michael Schiavo's favor. Despite that, the Schindlers are sure that their daughter's feeding tube will never be removed.

"Not speaking for Mary, but I don't really think about it. I still believe she is not going to meet that violent death," Bob offered.

"We are going to lose her. Everyone is going to die. But I don't think the Lord is going to have that kind of a death for her. I think he is going to take her when he is ready to take her. I think she will just die naturally," Mary continued.

Every time they visit her, Terri's parents said they pledge to continue their fight because they feel she deserves it.

"I always tell her: 'We are going to get you help, we are going to fix you, Terri,' " they both explained together. "Always. 'We are going to get you help, we are trying so hard, honey. We are going get you help.' "