I have seen plenty of "tough" women Marines. They frequently caused more problems than they solved.
I dealt with "ladies of the evening" (bar girls) having trouble with my Marines in Okinawa, and other oriental spots.
Why should a woman, who acts like a man, and not like a lady, deserve to be treated as a lady? Women can carry guns, take martial arts, etc. I simply will not be a target for anyone, male, female or transgender. Too bad if you don't like it. (See my earlier post.)
"Why should a woman, who acts like a man, and not like a lady, deserve to be treated as a lady?"
Because men are supposed to be better than that.
But evidently you are not.
And too bad if you don't like it.