Here was the quote. It wasn't a story, just a Freeper.
http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/f-news/1254146/posts?page=35#12
I also could have handled it better than I did since she said she was repeating something a friend told her, and it does no one any good to just take offense and complain.
By the way, lest it seem like I make a habit of this, I think these would be the only two times in 18 months of posting that I've tried to call people out on this kind of thing. It's not a posture I want to assume, because it is not constructive, it comes across as whiny, and I have at least a 50% failure rate so far. America is and has been the greatest country in the world for Jews, and compared to what my grandparents fled in Russia and the sort of prejudices other people experience this is trivial stuff.