Posted on 10/21/2004 8:14:41 AM PDT by microgood
PUYALLUP - "Let them have their 30-minutes of dressing goofy and having candy," said Silas Macon on the grounds of Puyallup's Maplewood Elementary School Wednesday afternoon.
He'd just learned the grade school tradition of a party and parade in costume during the last half-hour of class before Halloween night won't happen this year in the Puyallup School District for his two daughters.
The superintendent has cancelled all Halloween activities.
A letter sent home to parents Wednesday states there will be no observance of Halloween in the entire school district.
"We really want to make sure we're using all of our time in the best interest of our students," explained Puyallup School District spokesperson Karen Hansen.
Hansen says the superintendent made the decision for three primary reasons. First, Halloween parties and parades waste valuable classroom time. In addition some families can't afford costumes.
It's the third reason some Puyallup parents are struggling with.
The district says Halloween celebrations and children dressed in Halloween costumes might be offensive to real witches.
"Witches with pointy noses and things like that are not respective symbols of the Wiccan religion and so we want to be respectful of that," said Hansen.
The Wiccan, or Pagan, religion is growing in the U.S. and there are Wiccan groups in Puyallup.
Number eight on the district's guidelines related to holidays and celebrations reads as follows: "Use of derogatory stereotypes is prohibited, such as the traditional image of a witch, which is offensive to members of the Wiccan religion."
"I do lots of things that are not revolving around wearing a black outfit and stirring a cauldron," said Wiccan Priestess Cheryl Sulyma-Masson in an interview with ABC News where she explained that Wiccans (or Pagan Clergy) celebrate nature, not Satan.
A Puyallup School District internal email dating from October 2000 warns that "the Wiccan religion is a bona fide religion under the law, and its followers are entitled to all the protections afforded more mainstream religions. Building administrators should not tolerate such inappropriate stereotyping (images such as Witches on flying brooms, stirring cauldrons, casting spells, or with long noses and pointed hats) and instead address them as you would hurtful stereotypes of any other minority."
2004, however, is the first year that the superintendent decided to cite that concern, along with loss of classroom study time and protection for students who can't afford costumes, as motivation for canceling in-school Halloween activities.
"They're so worried about being politically correct anymore that we're not allowed to do much of anything," said parent Tonya Reynolds whose daughter attends Maplewood Elementary.
"If you don't want costumes call it a harvest party. We don't have to take out complete Halloween. We could still do something for our children," said parent Loni Andrews who promises to challenge the ruling at the next school board meeting.
"Yeah it does bother me because I would really like to go around and dress up," said Maplewood 6th grader Grace Macon.
"I think it's terrible," added Silas Macon. "I think it just kind of takes away from the little stuff they get to do that's fun at school."
"It's a little bit of both," said Hansen of the study time and religious reasons for canceling Halloween activities. "I don't think you can balance respect with instructional time and we would always be looking to do both. We want to make sure our students are respectful of all religions and all cultures.
Hansen also said that the PTA and teachers have been notified that they can hold parties or other Halloween events after the school day is over. Classroom time, however, will not be used for Halloween celebrations. Hansen says concerns about other holidays and parties held in school will be decided on a case by case basis.
Don't be surprised. They're everywhere. For a number of years while dealing with child support, our opposing attorney was a witch.
Our little one went to a AG preschool (at age 4...I'm too old and old fashioned to have sent him off at age 3) and it was through them I found out about this particular Catholic school. I have been very pleased with it. Their spiritual focus is very much Jesus, prayer, the awareness of the fact that God is loving and always there for them. There are of course a few differences we have, but they are very respectful of us and we of them and we feel very welcome there. They know we have a deep faith in the Lord and they have no problem praying with my son if he is upset and he never feels like an outsider which is nice. They also do not require him to participate in any spiritual practice we do not observe. We prayed long and hard for the right school for him and God really led us there.
As for Halloween, he understands why we don't bother with it. After school on that day we usually make caramel apples or some such treat akin to the fall season and if any trick or treaters ring the bell he has a ball giving them a bit of candy from our bowl. But, here in my area of NYC we really don't get many if any trick or treaters any more. Yes, our older sons do adore him and we know we are blessed. Seems to me that your 19 year old is going through normal growing experiences and testing various waters for herself, yet still within a boundaries she has for herself. I have no doubt you have instilled in her throughout the years enough of the truth that she will never stay too long in any diversion she might find along the way. God has His hand of protection upon her and He is going to use these years of being herself, sort of out on her own, to mold and develop her for what He has for her future. Sorry if that sounds convoluted. I'm not sure how else to say it!
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