It is a matter of principle. Same sex "marriage" is not about freedom. People can shack up with whomever they want to. What the gay activists and the liberals want more than anything is to have the government affirm and legitimize homosexual activity. That is what is so illegitimate about civil same sex "marriage". People in a free country have the right to have differing views on the morality of homosexual activity. The government should at most remain neutral, not promote homosexual activity and demonize those who believe otherwise.
You're missing the point, the problem, as previously pointed out is 'judicial tyranny', your efforts are misdirected.