"The money was good , yes , but for the most part he felt it was his duty to be over there."
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Actually I didn't mention money. I understand though, money was good.
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What my partner (who is a 100% disabled Vietnam Veteran) and I discussed was why in the world would a husband/wife team choose to both serve at the same time?)
That's what I meant.
And am very sorry you lost a loved one. I've lost many loved ones over the years also. They served in Vietnam. Korea and WWII. Just lost a good buddy last week. Taps to him.
You have my prayers!
Barlowmaker did mention $ , and you had replied to him , hence my mention of it . Thanks for your condolences .