Frankly, Richard, it is none of your business what I say to someone else here and you can take your "cheers" and put them ............well, you get the picture.
You write, in public,
"...it is none of your business what I say to someone else here"
Astonishing.
I thought this was a public forum, with public accoutability for arguments ... and sneers.
Why not use email, or the private channels here at FR, if you won't stand for public scrutiny?
I'd say instead, that you don't want to stand up for what you said, in public, "Put up, or shut up, or go private."
You have my regards, wherever you choose to place them,
Richard F.