I have no idea what you are saying. Women in my company compete in a male dominated industry every day. They are all well paid so they aren't in an abusive work environment as you describe. You are thinking McDonald's but you need to be thinking "hitting the glass ceiling."
If you ever get to see the salaries of the people sitting right next to you with the same years of experience doing the same job and then compare them, well, guess what. The men get more.
You sound like one of those angry feminists. Why don't you get a sex-change operation if being a woman is such a raw deal?