I wouldn't say he's hot...but I love'em because he reminds me of my father-in-law...calming and always ready with good advice.
I can tell you why Cheny appears hot to some of us. It is because we know from personal life experience with men we love, or have loved in the past, that it is the "quiet ones" with the twinkle in their eye that make the very best lovers.
Some of you may be old enough to remember a song from the 50s...
He's not much good at a dance
But when you get him alone
You'd be surprised