My Mother was from a family of 11, Mr. Robinson. Her Mother immigrated LEGALLY from Hungary, then married an American. They raised their 11 children without government assistance, probably the same way your parents did. It is not up to American citizens/taxpayers to pay the bills for the millions of illegal aliens who sneak across our borders.
They're here illegally, they're sucking up all our resources, our social services, our schools, our hospitals, and they're taking our jobs. We're forced to pay for all of it. Our government is allowing this to happen. This is not a racial thing, it's an economic thing. You can't be surprised that people are angry.
That's what I've been trying to say. It's an economic problem and (short of war with Mexico) the long term solution will be an economic solution.