Sounds liberated to me! Definitely is not oppression or slavery.
"Submit yourselves one unto another..."
At a presentation of the physician's portion of the abstinence program, "Worth the Wait," I was surprised by the questions I was asked by the 6th graders. One girl, after I had told them that the best and only safe sex was one partner for life, asked me, "How do you know he's the one."
After acknowledging that she had asked the toughest question of all, I told them that the other person would make you feel better about yourself -as though you are a better person when you're around him or her - and that each should feel like he or she was lucky to have the other - that probably each should feel that he or she is more lucky than the other!