I may be in a tiny minority, but I didn't even look at girls until I was a sophomore in high school. I just wasn't interested. Nothing was more fun to me than playing ball. Admittedly, I was among the last of my friends to find the opposite sex attractive, but I know from observing my own children those kinds of emotions don't normally occur until about eighth grade and in some kids it doesn't start until high school.
Put me on the ping list. I'm not cathloc, but I care about many of the same issues that cathlocs do.