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First, I want to say that I am new here. I have been reading this board for a little while, but I did have it confused with New republic, which is NOT a conservative site! Lucianne's site set me straight!. Now, I read this site regularly, and will post here as well.

As for women being selfless, WHEN was that, MAYBE 40 YEARS AGO? In my own life, I, as a male, have been the recipient of a LOT of women's "selfless" acts, like acting like they liked me, just to get another guy's attention, playing a joke on me, in "acting" like they like me, out of a dare, or pretending to be a friend,just to get help in college, and then, ignoring me, and threatening me, never to speak, look at, or even come near them, after they passed the class. I have always treated women with respect, My mother taught me that. I have not had that respect returned to me, very often.And, is it selfless, to think that you should"take credit for what other people do, to get ahead", as one woman recently recommended? my mother IS selfless, so are a few people her age. but, aside from a woman I knew 17 years ago,when I was 19, most of the women I have known personally since, have just USED me, for their own benefit. I am NOT the only guy who feels this way. It seems the women today only want the nasty, selfish, brutish guys, who do NOT treat women respectfully, they look at men like me, as "losers", nerds", freaks", and so on, because I am more interested in political matters than sports, because I want a real relationship, not a weekend, because I am pro-life, pro-family,pro-God, and so on.

Sorry to go on this way, but i just figured that after all of the women's perspective of mens faults,(and believe me, I KNOW men who fit the descriptions that have been stated, so I do feel for the women who have been hurt by them, BUT, WOMEN can and DO hurt MEN, ALSO) it was time for a man to speak up, and be counted. I am sure I will no longer be welcome here, neither.

Oh, my friend, you have most definitely been hurt by women -- very misguided little girls who are all about themselves first, last and always. Lots of them have been raised that way and it is on the increase these days, to be sure. But I guarantee you that they are in for a lifetime of heartache and unfulfillment when they continue to be baffled by their unhappiness.

Not all of us are like that, I promise you.

Some of us recognize that it is the "nerds" and "geeks" who end up being the Bill Gates! ;)

Seriously, though, I have more disagreements with women than men. They absolutely baffle me at times and I'm one of them!

Praying that you find peace -- and if you haven't found a wonderful gal yet, prayers for that too!