She may be scum - many people are, she is dishonoring her son. However, she is still his mother and since when do we attack a dead soldier's mother?
Out of respect for the soldier and out of respect for the price that family has paid, I will not attack the mother. And, I will not go about "judging" the actions of other parents of dead soldiers.
Do you really think that soldier would be glad to hear that people were treating his mother that way? NO? Then why in the heck do it - unless of course it makes YOU feel better.
You can do what you want.
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