I am anxious to see who these are. I think it may be the Jersey women.
I'll never forget an interview I saw of one of the women (I don't know if it was one of these) a few months after 9/11. She was from Jersey, lived in a HUGH house and all she could talk about was how she was not going to be able to live in the "style and comfort she was used to". That is a quote. I will never forget that. More regret about losing the lifestyle then the husband.
Sad really.
She basically used him as a living breathing ATM.