Female porn is the written word or the suggestive picture and not that which is overt. As a marketing guy who enjoyed my bachelor days, I can say first hand that interest and seduction happened through language and imagery, not pin ups or porn flicks.
Romance novels are pretty much the equivalent of female porn. I think that's what makes internet chats,etc. a special concern for women. Believe me I know from personal experience! LOL
I agree 100%.