ArBuckle shares dumb people stories with me all the time. I see so much tanned ink it amazes me.
check out http://www.lovehatetattoo.com
I used to do the website but not anymore. Almost all of my work is done by Jet except my leg which was done by Ben. That is one of the best shops in the NorthEast.
I hope you and your wife are not using those "tattoo goo" products! Stay away from any "aftercare" products as they are harmful to the sensitive healing process!