May I recommend the works of Ernie Pyle for your review regarding the matter.
Again, you've let your keyboard unload your ignorant-assed brain!
I'm not a lifer; I did six years enlisted; honorably discharged; obtained a Bachelor degree in Economics; have run a have a dozen companies (as a COO or CEO) and retired to pleasant life with a beautiful lady.
BUT, you sir, have enflammed my hot button - that would be challenging a FOOL who speaks without full knowledge of the facts or to whom he (or she) is speaking to.
As to your; "No one meant any disrespect..." remark, whether it was meant or not - it was delivered and you are fool for not recognizing your actions.