I see nothing imflametory about it at all. All she said was that if you are passive about the issue, it helps those in favor of gay marriage.
No, that's not all she said. If that was all she'd said, this Boston Phoenix article would never have been written. Invoking the Holocaust, and comparing it to whatever issue one is speaking about at the moment, is inflammatory, unlike you are speaking of something genuinely comparable, such as Pol Pot's slaughter of half the population of Cambodia.