Empowerment is not staring at your vagina in the mirror and weeping or exulting. Its writing a great essay, running a marathon, starting a successful business, or being a great mother. It is becoming an innovative scientist or mathematician or musician. And college is precisely the environment where this kind of genuine empowerment can take root. College is the time to read the great works of humankind: to study the culture of humanity. That will fortify you for life. It will enrich you and help you find your way in the world.Correction: college USED TO BE about these things. Now college is for 85% at least, a place to get drunk or high, and meet up with willing nubile sex partners of the gender of your choosing.