Posted on 08/27/2004 11:41:39 AM PDT by Joe Republc
Excuse me but asking Freepers about a drug for your kid, is it not like asking Rock stars who to vote for in the coming election?
Ritalin IS the drug of choice for TURRETS SYNDROME.
My children don't have a TV. They are allowed to watch selected programs and tapes on our TV for MAYBE an hour a week.
My son has had 2 male teachers. My husband lives at home and is *gasp* my son's real father. Neither of us is wimpy. We require good behavior and we spanked our son, but that never did a bit of good. He has been in OT for years, which also helped, but wasn't good enough. We increased his exercise, especially heavy lifting. We are enrolling him in anger management.
I don't care what anyone else says. My parents did a 180 degree turn on the way they viewed ADD. My Dad kept saying that we should spank him more, and everyone kept saying he was fine. But he wasn't. He was depressed and unable to cope with anything at four years old.
The day my mother realized that he COULD not control his impulses was a big day for me.
I fought against medication for more than five years, and I won't allow anyone who THINKS they know everything make me feel badly for making a decision which has given us a (mostly)happy son who is able to do VERY well at school and a family that is finally somewhat peaceful.
He went from having to be FORCED to do his nightly reading, to being the top reader in his entire school last year.
1) My son as diagnosed with ADHD before he ever had a video game.
2) He was always (and continues to be when he wants to be) an accelerated reader.
3) My son has not been on medication for over four years now.
Thanks for playing. ;-)
I would first eliminate sugar (sweets, soft drinks, etc.) for at least a couple of weeks, and see if the behavior changes before I let any doctor prescribe Ritalin. Then I would seek a second and even a third opinion.""
All of this and dramatically increase his exercise- structured or otherwisw, and be a witness to the fact that he is actually using up some serious calories.
Bowling is a great one where the whole family can be included. Don't be thinking it is too old fashioned and pedestrian for your life style. The extra bonus is that learning to keep score in bowling is a bit tricky and it teaches kids alot. If you make him the scorekeeper and he learns to accomplish that, I agree---he DOESN'T have ADD. He's just being a boy. Testosterone is kicking in.
O.K. how rephrasing the question: Why the abuse of school children for financial gain is tollerated in U.S. of A? Why school boards are allowed to syphon off disability funds from U.S. Government by forcibly putting children on Ritalin? Why FDA is silent?
RITALIN IS POLITICAL ISSUE.
What I find is children on these drugs are just doped normal kids for the most part. As Americans we don't want to give up the American lifestyle even though it's killing us. Just look at the overweight problem for kids today. They spend too much time eating chocolate in front of the tube and not enough doing constructive play.We used to play "Army", hide and seek, cowboys and Indians, football, baseball, dodge ball, you name it, till Mom call our names out to come home for dinner. Now days, they spend 5 hrs playing "Halo" in front of the tube with cokes and candy. I won't work!
Teachers recommend doping students because they can no longer beat their ass'$, when they act up. It's called "being a kid". Some people have told me "Oh you just have no idea!" Well if your child is acting out that badly, maybe there are other underlying problems that need attention. Turning them into doped zombies is almost never the answer. We have become a pill society and it's ruining our country.
An interesting study would be "How many ADD kids are in China?" Russia? Viet Nam? Panama? Ecuador? Why don't they have these problems? Because their diet is not 30% sugar and they don't "play" in front of the tube.
I home schooled my daughter when her 1st grade teacher said she was ADD and needed drugs. There was nothing wrong with her other than a bad teacher. She is a wonderful daughter now in college. She is balanced and was no problem to raise and teach. Alot of parents just don't want to deal with the baseballs through windows, fights with the neighbor's kids, paint on things that don't need it, etc. That's just the territory of parenting. Just like a good marriage, it takes work, lot's of work. They don't raise themselves and you can't pay someone else to love them. That's why I believe Day care is ruining our childrens lives, but that's another thread.
The part about the reading was actually in regards to the originator explaining his son's symptoms, and he also said that his son watched quite a bit of tv. I'm sorry, I think i was actually replying to several posts at once. I know that there are some cases where medication is the best option, and I'm glad that it worked for your son, I was just presenting a different medical opinion on video games and ADD. ;-)
-Jessica
Great post..couldn't have said it better...thanks mom :)
No problem.
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I would NEVER take a statin drug. You are wise. I have a favorite medical website: it's Dr. Walt Stoll. He has different parts to his website. There's his info part and then there are message boards where he also posts. It is a very good website.
I know of someone who is in a wheelchair because of statin drugs.
You know, I do respect doctors and their expertise.
But I also respect the experiences of parents that have lived with this in their home.
I also have a deep skepticism that doctors are worried too much about short-term alleviation of pain and inconvenience. The long-view of my son's social, educational, and, yes, spiritual growth matters to me. That doesn't compute with enough doctors.
-- Joe
Organic food isn't necessarily the answer, however. Since organic foods do not use preservatives, molds and fungi grow in organic foods to a greater extent than in non-organic foods. If the issue is allergies organic foods, generally speaking, won't help.
Personally, I would try three tablespoons of Benadryl for about a week before trying any other medication. It sounds crazy, but allergies can affect behavior in ways that don't always make sense.
As for the boy, he sounds like a fine boy to me. How much time does he spend with you alone, or mom alone? One-on-one time with a parent can modify a too-easily-distracted mind. Also, you might try activities requiring dexterity, like juggling---get him a video and a few beanbags and see what happens. Pottery's good too. Magic. Card games.
Some people just aren't altogether comfortable with the written word, and they don't grow up to be novelists. Oh well! For sure I wouldn't put somebody on medication for that reason.
Diet is very important, and you should devote serious attention to nutrition before even considering Ritalin, which is really just another "indulgence" tossed his way. Especially if he's overweight---that right there is a problem and it needs to be fixed pronto. Find a reputable nutritionist (and do some reading). Think about getting the boy to a gym or a pool on a regular basis.
Above all, fix the problems now, because soon he'll be a teenager and then those problems will be real monsters.
Don't forget to ask him how he feels about this---and that. Give him your attention.
I seriously recommend that you try to treat this with diet first. Often it does the trick!
I did not say that. I said ADD can be controlled with diet. Perhaps not always, but changing the diet should certainly be the first thing to do.
I am not against medications. They improve and save lives. But I have also seen bad effects when children on Ritalin grow up.
I'm sorry, I am ignorant of this problem, but why is now when it never used to be? What the hell has caused it? Is it a lack of disapline at 2 yrs old, a fear of spanking, a fear of hurting your kids feelings to follow through? I believe it is a combination of things in this way the world is now, I don't believe in kids taking any drugs. There doesn't seem to be normal any more. Kids are crying out, won't anyone hear them?
I don't know that one. Does it eliminate all wheat, oats, rye, barley, dairy and fruit?
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