Mike,
How about the Canadians that donated so much blood after 9/11 that the Red Cross had to finally reject it because they couldn't handle the flood?
How about the Canadians that housed and hosted all those Americans after US airspace was shut down and we couldn't get home (I was one of them)?
How about the thousands of Canadians that rallied with Stars & Stripes in Ottawa to show their solidarity with their neighbour after they got embarrassed by a few individual loudmouth leftists?
How about the Canadians helping out in Afghanistan? Our troops speak very highly of the Canadians.
No, I think we could definitely count on on our neighbours to the north.
You may be right, and I do not dispute your points. But, I just don't see it. This may be a case of a few bad apples, but I see Canada and the USA as having differences in attitudes.