I have had quite a few men who have told me to just give up.
I do not understand that and I will always fight for what is best for my children.
I agree with you and would never tell you to quit, but what good does it do to fight "the system" when it's men who are bending over backwards trying to outshaft each other? Isn't it time we faced the real cause of our problems and stop wasting time blaming feminists and "the system" for everything?