"Is it just too irresistable ?..I was hoping for your input ..Is it living dangerously, needing to live the fantasy, or is he loving to hear the pain he inflicted?The last tape he is really pushing to see her."
My best guess is that his motivations are control and admiration. His "real life" is careening out of his control; he is being scrutinized and criticized. Amber is the only "place" where he can feel in control and get the admiration he so desparately needs....his narcissistic supply. I additionally believe that he was obssessed with her.
Thanks,juie,I had thought he was obsessed, then wavered and am back to obsessed...His narcissistic soul was taking a beating in public...He needed Amber!...At least he has his SIL Janey to feed his narcisssism...She said in one interview they had talked and he cried almost daily..Gag.