[Yaelle]

Once he was sober he figured out to dump the wife and has been a heck of a lot happier.

Well, good for him then! I know how it is -- you try your hardest to keep your OWN marriage vows and you need to be hit over the head that the partner is NOT keeping theirs. If that's what his marriage was like, I am glad it's over. He does sound happier.

[tame]

you try your hardest to keep your OWN marriage vows and you need to be hit over the head that the partner is NOT keeping theirs.

What are you referring to?