I don't hate her either. I think that lady is the most confused looking person in the world. I think she married Kerry on the Rebound and is now being dragged all over the place on his huge ego trip. But that is just my opinion.
I agree, I think he way well have turned out to not be quite what she thought. He is such a poser. If nothing else, she's certainly no BSer, his phonyness is grating her nerves no doubt.