The specific malice of taking sperm via a perfeorated condom, freezing it, and then inserting the sperm into his wife once he meets her is certainly much lower than IVF/Masturbation, etc.
All the same, it is still a seperation of the unitive and procreative aspects of sex as you note. I can't imagine the Church blessing such a scenario as entirely without fault.
Thanks.
BTW, your posts here are truly helpful to those who would open up their hearts and minds to their content.
Meanwhile, I have to go and reinforce the table my computer is on so it can better support the weight of your arguments. Cheers.