When my wife and I got married (yes, she has my last name) we had that problem with a couple of invitations. My solution: Mr. and Mrs. (His last name). The heck with their silly little ego trips. Just because they screwed it up, didn't mean I had to.
"My solution: Mr. and Mrs. (His last name). The heck with their silly little ego trips. "
I've done that before and never gave it a second thought!
My sister-in-law took her husband's last name on her driver's license, etc. but uses her last name for work. They are entertainers and wanted separate "stage names". I think they'd do better if they advertised as a couple but that's just MHO. I still don't see the point in this. As if any fans she has wouldn't figure out that she'd gotten married. Oh well!