[BikerNYC]

There's also the question of whether someone who is normal would want you to stick your penis in their mouth.

You don't have anyone who will do that for you, do you?

To me, normal is not "those activites which contribute the least to spreading disease," rather, normal is something more broad, and could be equated with activity which a large percentage of people, say 80-90%, engage in. Accordingly, anal intercourse, climbing Mt. Everest, and becoming President can be considered abnormal. They are outside the norm.

[ArGee]

You don't have anyone who will do that for you, do you?

The question is, do I have anyone that I would ask to do that for me? It seems a lot to ask just so I can have another way to get my jollies.

But, to each his own as long as I don't have to deal with hate-crime legislation on his account.

The word you're looking for isn't "normal", it's "normative". Shalom.