Sorry, but that's a lame excuse, an easy way out, and a dangerous slope that will eventually slide a woman into angry, loathing, discontented, silently suffering, self-hating nut case: a complete drag to be around. Besides, a woman should be mature enough to own up to her actions. If she has legitimate reasons for having an abortion, a real man who's interested in her will be understanding. You might be surprised at just how understanding men are with women who are truly, even brutally, honest with them.
Oh spare me it's no excuse. A man who goads and pressures a woman into an abortion is just as guilty. You are the one who demanded such a list, and I'm pointing out why there will never be such a list.