I was definatley Blessed to have my Mom for so long..
The lsat time I saw her was when Abram was to be born, he is 12.
I flew her out here to Buffalo from Tucson. She was to stay a month.
2 weeks before and 2 weeks after. Well Jul carried him over, the month passed and my step father demanded my mother leave with him. A couple days later Abram was born.
I didn't see my Mom after that.
When Lilly was born she was to come out and spend some time with us the next summer but things would change quickly.
When Dorinda got married, soon after she had a stroke, she was going thru therapy, lost use of some of her right side. At one point my step cut off communication with us all. I was ready to drive out there with my brother Bill from Massachusetts. Finally my brother kevin called from Arizona he said that he had talked to her and things seemed to be fine.
My Mom called me, she sounded drunk, I let Jul talk to her and the conversation ended. That was the last time I ever spoke to her, she sounded upset, depressed, I was concerned still.
It wasn't long after that when my sis Dorinda called me on the morning of my Birthday that my Mom had died.
By that night I was in Tucson. I took care of all the arrangements, buried my Mom and fell apart when I got home.
That summer my stepfather came to visit, that is when Jul fell apart, she went to make my step a cup of tea, she was gone for to long, I went into the kitchen and there she was crying her heart out.
All she could say was, It's suppose to be Mom in the other room Rus, it's suppose to be Moms Mably.
If I knew then what I have found out over the past 5 years, I would have demanded an autopsy.
My Birthday is my Moms Birthday into the arms of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.
Some one else will have to answer to Him at a later date.
there were some strange things that happened that someone will have to be held accountable for and that is all I will say.
Does anyone know how to interpet a coroners report?
I have it, and ther are some strange things on it..
While no expert, send the report to me via my e-mail, Rus, and I'll look at it in the morning and see what I might spot. I worked around medicine 19 years.
Can also forward it to my son, who is a Physician Assistant. Graduated from the University of Florida School of Medicine; practiced in Colorado; obtained his Masters Degree; teaches PA's-to-be at a University in South Florida - and just had his Doctoral Candidacy Project for his PhD approved.
Although I have dealt with Coroner's reports, Rus, I would take it to your family physician and get them to go over it with you.
If there are any improprieties they would be able to tell you.
Your Mom is in GOD's house and she would want you to be happy and remembering her only with love and not worry.