sex is a desire, not a need. In marriage it is also a right, but it comes with a lot of responsibility. 'Months at a time' or not, 'looking elsewhere' is wrong.
Well of course it is and I never said it wasn't. That does nothing to change the facts of biology and evolutionary psychology.
My point is, a woman who cuts her husband off from sex for months at a time, and expects the man's sense of right and wrong to keep him out of the arms of other women, is taking a serious risk. Right, wrong or indifferent, that's the way it always was and always will be. You can huff and puff about how wrong or wicked it is all you like, and be perfectly correct, and yet not change the behavior of men one iota.
-ccm