"..worry about tomorrow worry about today and fight me about it."
This sounds eerily familiar.
I have found that it is a trait shared by women who had 1. A mentally abusive relationship with their father and 2. Refuse to take control of their life and say, "I'm gonna have a good day". In otherwords hopeless victim mindset.
A woman is better off to have an absent father than an abusive one. I have done extensive research on this within the bounds of working with people I know who fit the profile.
My daughter and I have always had a great relationship and she is very happy. Laura Earl and her dad get along great and she is a happy person.
My advice to all young men is to ask a new girlfriend, "How is your dad?" If she says he is a @#@)(*WJK. Run Away.