It's a state issue, you are correct - until a gay couple married in Massachucetts petitions a federal court (and wins) to sanction their marriage outside Mass.
would you agree at that point that it is no longer a state issue?
your "I don't care" attitude is playing right into the hands of the gays on the left. someday, when they are pumping this stuff into your kids at school, you'll care. but by then, there will be nothing that can be done to wipe these gay marriages off the books and declare them null and void.
The Federal court should say that this issue is not for the Federal courts to decide, but being that the courts are not for judge of impartiality anymore but for political hacks on both sides (or so it seems), they will be able to hold the spotlight on their particular court if they make a ruling on the case, i.e. 15 minutes of fame...
I know, its a pipe dream, but a court that is politically impartial WAS the wish of the founding fathers and it certainly hasnt been quite followed through on in the past what about 10 years or so....