Why add a dysfunctional sex fetish as a solution? Wouldn't that be teaching the children to go the wrong way? Shouldn't we be reinforcing normal heterosexual behavior to strengthen marriage rather than belittling it and turning it into nothing but a bath house orgy?
I guess this is where we differ. I really don't think any amount of "teaching" would have made my fellow boys in gym class any more attractive to me. I still was more fixated on what went on in the girls' locker room, but the cement block walls were too strong for even my X-ray vision.
Tolerance of even voluntary behaviors is not endorsement of them. When we tolerate people of different political views, religions, or cultural practices, we do not actively encourage them. Homosexuals do not need permission to feel the way they do about members of their own gender. They've done it repeatedly throughout history, even when the penalties of getting caught were much more Draconian than any of us here would countenance.