These young men need to wake up, repent of their porn and the lies it teaches, and replace their warped view with a biblical understanding:
"Let your fountain be blessed, and rejoice in the wife of your youth, a lovely deer, a graceful doe. Let her breasts fill you at all times with delight; be intoxicated always in her love. [Proverbs 5:18-19]
LMAO! You pastor is spreading his own stereotype that women aren't ever 'hot and ready' and that they all 'cook slowly'! Maybe the pastor cannot handle a woman who actually wants sex for the sake of sex and not because it is her 'duty'.