So you've actually discussed this with "lots" of homosexuals? Consider that for them to admit that they chose their 'lifestyle', well, that would make them feel guilt. It would make them responsible for their own actions. They can't handle that. And it just wouldn't agree with the leftist propaganda thats been spread in the last few decades.
yes subterfuge, we CHOSE to be gay. We choose to be ridiculed and mocked in school, we choose to be threatened verbally and physically, we choose not to be able to marry the person we love.......Why wouldn't anyone choose to be gay with all these benefits??????? Whatever!
Homosexuals awaken to their same-sex attraction just like you awakened to your sexual identity at puberty. To them, it seems genetic.
Or, maybe they're in a situation where they would know better than you, and possibly you're wrong.