There are no REAL numbers, because its been too hard to get legitimate results. No one really knows how many gay people there are. Besides, does it really matter? We're still Americans, and we still pay taxes, and we pump more into the economy than most other demographics because we have more disposable income.
I notice you don't like studies which demonstrate that gays are a small part of the population. They are inaccurate. Yet, the ones which show that most people are bisexual you like. Those are the accurate studies.