What did you do? I'm newly married (last september), although we've been dating for 10 years this august.
You sound like me and mine!!!!
4 months shy of 10 years together we finally got married - together 16 years, married 7.
Well ... all my nagging didn't do a thing
One night he thought he was having a heart attack .. turned out to be just gas though
Anyhow .. it scared him enough to get a check up .. where he found out that he had REALLY high blood pressure
The doctor said he needed a new diet, more rest .. and pills
He could do all the above except the rest part ... he snored so bad that he would stop breathing and wasn't getting a good night sleep
When he did that .. I use to bounce the bed to jump start his breathing
Anyhow .. got side tracked
Well the doc sent him to a sleep study thingy .. where he failed BIG TIME ... he stopped breathing like every minute
Soooooo his choices to fix the problem was to sleep with an oxygen mask or have laser surgery on his throat
He went for the surgery.
The first week was rough and he lost 20 pounds .. but after a few weeks he was better ..and now he sleeps all night and doesn't stop breathing anymore