Not to worry.
The only ones who drive me nuts are the self-proclaimed "intellectuals" who really have no clue.
My dear husband of 42 years has the worst grammar in the world. He is truly a victim of his "hillbilly" heritage.
I've gently corrected his grammar for years...to no avail.
He succeeded in spite of me, or maybe because of me.
I am not a "grammar snob" and would never denigrate one because of his or her lack.
There are so many other things in life far more important than noun/verb agreement and who versus whom.
But I still think Dr. Ben-Hur needs further investigation.
Doc Ben Hur may sic us with "evil" laser equipped sharks in our toilets if we continue to aggravate him...LOL