Oops, too late. A foolish person in post #7 already asked it.
Get treatment for your reading disorder. Post #7 asks nothing of the sort:
"Much as I'm opposed to gay "marriage," I've never seen this claim [that gay "marriage" has the potential to destroy the institution of marriage in this country] adequately defended (and it's usually not defended at all, but simply asserted)."
A rose by any other name ....