Yes, children die in wars and it is most regrettable. But in the case that any of these hypothetical moderate mohamedans actually exist, give them a choice: go find the bad guys for us or watch your children die. Shouldn't that be incentive enough?
Just curious: if somebody came to you with that choice, what would your response be?
I know what my response would be: to try to kill the bastards who made the threat. You think an Iraqi man wouldn't do the same?
The "keyboard generals" love to pretend that the Iraqis will just accept whatever atrocities they'd have our troops commit. They're delusional.