It is what it is, a trashy affair. The lady in need equates it with love and respect, oh and exciting. The man, doesn't even call it sex. To him it is fleeting moment in the oval office.
He sullied the office, and stained his legacy. At the time it sounded like fun. No on e would ever know.
My step father told me no self respecting man would ever be seen as a permanent part of her life. So I guess the scarlet letter is self imposed.
Your stepfather is correct. Monica herself was complaining that no one would date her.
Give him a hug for Father's Day...