I think you're completely wrong about that.
I think it is good to welcome new people (she has only been here about two months and seems to fit in fine) and try to understand them instead of just discouraging them.
I couldn't care less about registration dates, and I've never thrown mine in anyone's face.
If Trofeewife's discouraged and wants to throw in the towel over this, then so be it. We've all taken our lumps here. Anyone who sticks around for awhile does, and I certainly have.
Well of course you do. Show me how you dispute the fact that she was talking about biological children. Which was part of my point, which you neglected to answer in your post to me.
Not only was I not wrong, but I certainly was not completely wrong...
If you want to back up your denial of what I said, then you will have a case.
And good for you for not using the reg date, I never have either. I think it is a moot point as you can see by the post of mine that you responded to.
That is a pretty broad brush, that we have all taken our lumps here.
I have never until now from you. Thanks for being the first person to give me a "lump".
If you want to discourage new people from participating here, and have to have them get "lumps" go for it.
I think this website has better goals than that IMO.
Oh, and sorry you have had to take lumps. I hope you learned from them. Of course that doesn't give you the privilege of giving them to others, or does it?